How do i do the setup so i can surf anonymous on the web??

i tried some programs but it seems to me they just slow down my speed or the net wont work ,Iphider and HidemyIp was my shot..
im behind a router.
since its not up to me to turn on/off the router i cant do anything..

Your net will always slow down behind a proxy, therefore it was working fine.

well you can use ultrasurf, it fast and doesn't require setting, just wait until it connected, here is the tutorial :

Help Others Using The Internet: How to Get Blocked Website using Ultra Surf

Aside 4rm ultra surf freegate freedom,jap,gtunnel,gpass wich oda 1ce can i use?

well you can use Web proxy it fast and doesn't require setting
Free web proxy
or
New web proxy